Eldercare and Caregiver Burnout – Your “Caring” May Be Contributing to Burnout!

Eldercare and caregiver burnout can be avoided by learning to manage your “caring”.

Family members are always happy to assist their aging loved ones. As the care giving experience begins, many family members choose to care for their aging loved one themselves. The caregivers are enthusiastic and energized. Caregivers experience personal rewards caring for their aging loved one.

Eldercare for an aging loved one can be unpredictable and intermittent. What once used to entail a few weeks or months now often extends for years. Recent studies show that the average duration providing caregiving is 4.3 years; and 29% of caregivers have provided care for longer than 5 years.

As your aging loved ones needs change, so do the responsibilities of the caregiver. As a consequence, the increase demand on the caregiver creates chronic stress.

Many caregivers believe that “caring” is giving attention, worrying about their aging loved one, avoiding saying “no” to any request and a feeling of always having to be available at a moments notice. Most caregivers contribute to caregiver burnout by not setting limits and boundaries, and avoiding the telltale signs of chronic stress.

Many caregivers believe that if they are not available to do everything for their loved one they will be perceived as uncaring. Caregivers often create a dependency between their aging loved one and themselves. This dependency is a bond that the caregiver eventually becomes to resent. Anger, depression, guilt all contribute to chronic stress.

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The most important thing a caregiver can do is to make themselves a priority. Experiencing the physical and mental deterioration of your aging loved one and feeling helpless and overwhelmed creates a scenario for a spiral into the caregiver becoming a patient.

The first step to avoiding caregiver burnout is to be aware of the signs of chronic stress.
The next step is to acknowledge those signs and take the necessary actions to explore options for remedies.

Signs of caregiver burnout are…

  • Difficulty with sleep, falling asleep, staying asleep
  • Feelings of fatigue, lack of energy (physical and mental) even if you had a good nights sleep
  • Easily becomes angered or unusually irritable
  • Difficulty focusing or making decisions
  • Feelings of anxiety, frustration, guilt, depression or grief
  • Feeling of hopelessness
  • Lack feelings of joy or moments of happiness or enjoyment
  • Neglected your own health and personal care
  • Have a chronic health condition

These are just a few of the signs of chronic stress and caregiver burnout. If you have experienced any of these for a period of longer than 2 weeks, or if your caregiving has interfered with you having any type of normal life, you should seek help.

It is important that you do not ignore the signs of chronic stress or caregiver burnout. Significant health consequences could occur from ignoring those signs.

There is good news about avoiding caregiver burnout. There is clear and effective treatment for chronic stress.

Take time to consult with your physician to get the proper care for yourself.

You must take care of yourself before you can help take care of others.

Stress relieving strategies that work involve rewiring your emotional responses to situations and to assist you in getting back to a more balanced life. Simply put, take the
negative energy or thoughts and replace it with positive ones. This take thought and practice, but over time can be an effective method for changing your perceptions and feelings.

Other strategies to utilize:

  • Acknowledge that you are making a difference in someone else’s life. You are valuable and useful
  • Determine what is ultimately important and your goal for caring for your loved one
  • Prioritize and create a routine
  • Acknowledge you and your loved one have limitations. Forgive yourself and those around you for those limitations
  • Do not hesitate to request assistance from others. It will make you a healthier and happier caregiver
  • Research community resources
  • Make yourself a priority
  • Learn to take time and relax, and have some fun along the way
  • Take a break when necessary-and be aware of when you feel a need to take a break
  • Use relaxation techniques
  • Stay connected to family, and friends. Take time to enjoy activities with others
  • Talk out your feelings with others – Join a support group – Have a family meeting – Seek professional help or talk with your spiritual counselor

Eldercare and caregiver burnout is avoidable. Being aware of the signs of chronic stress and taking action to overcome the challenges of caregiving will lead to a healthier, happier quality of life for everyone.

Diane Carbo Registered Nurse has more than thirty five years in the nursing field. Her experience as a geriatric care manager, makes her uniquely qualified to help those who want to live out their lives in their own homes. That decision may be made when you are 20, 30, 40 or in fact at any age, with sooner rather than later being ideal. Diane has developed a web site to make people aware of issues and options. You will find a mountain of helpful information that will be continually updated. Please visit http://www.aginghomehealthcare.com/caregiver-stress.html for more on stress. Sgn up for The Caring Advocate Ezine her free newlsetter and receive a complimentary copy of the Home Health Care Planning Guide.


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One Response to “Eldercare and Caregiver Burnout – Your “Caring” May Be Contributing to Burnout!”
  1. Great post! Caregiver burnout is grossly underestimated. Working in home health care myself, I saw the effects of it and it impacted their loved ones care negatively, the very thing they were trying to avoid. Know when to ask for help and use as many resources as there are available to you!

    K. Thiessen, BS

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